Spirituality

Henry Shukman – A Path To True Mindfulness

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Talking points: zen, meditation, mindfulness, psychedelics, mindset

I’m one of those people who hated sitting down and meditating, even after a few years of trying to practice. It’s now something I do nearly every day, and it grounds me in ways I can’t explain. This is a pretty common story, especially among men I’ve worked with, so I brought Henry Shukman back on the show to dig into what novice meditators get wrong, what some good starter methods are, and really: what IS thought, anyway?

Listen in for a great look at the start and “end” goal of mindfulness, and Henry’s infectious enthusiasm for this powerful practice.

(00:00:00) – Intro

(00:03:47)- Do men and women have different struggles with meditation?

(00:08:35) – Why do meditation and mindfulness draw more women than men?

(00:18:45) – What are the initial resistance points when people start a meditation practice?

(00:25:03) – What IS thinking?

(00:31:57) – But what’s the actual goal of mindfulness, and how do you get there?

(00:38:56) – The power of allowing, and what it actually means

(00:49:29) – What is “original nature”?

(00:56:16) – Do psychedelics offer the same glimpse into reality as meditation does?

(01:04:24) – Henry’s upcoming app

Henry Shukman is a mindfulness teacher and the spiritual Director of Mountain Cloud Zen Center. He has been trained by several Zen teachers, particularly the roshis Joan Rieck, John Gaynor, Ruben Habito, and Yamada Ryoun Roshi, as well as by teachers and mentors in other traditions. Henry has an MA from Cambridge and an MLitt from St. Andrews, and has written several award-winning books of poetry and fiction.

He currently guides a wide range of students from all walks of life. He received dharma transmission (inka shomei) from Yamada Ryoun Roshi, the abbot of Sanbo Zen, and is a Zen Master of the Sanbo Zen lineage of Kamakura, Japan.

Connect with Henry

-Upcoming app: The Way: https://www.thewayapp.com/

-Website; Mountain Cloud Zen Center: https://www.mountaincloud.org/

-Website; Original Love Meditation: https://originallove.org/

-Book; One Blade Of Grass: https://bit.ly/3CFLuFz

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mountaincloudzencenter/

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Experts On: Addiction and Enlightenment

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Talking points: addiction, culture, history, enlightenment, Zen, purpose, non-duality

The ManTalks Podcast has grown exponentially over the last couple years, so for all you newcomers, I like to release a sort of cross-section or “best of” episode to showcase what the podcast is all about—after all, I have talked to some brilliant and varied experts over the years!

This time, the themes are the widest ever: addiction and enlightenment. I chose this to demonstrate my love of the scientific and the spiritual—and my constant goal to balance the two. As Albert Einstein said, science without religion is lame, and religion without science is blind. I hope you enjoy.

(00:00:00) – Dr. Anne Lembke on defining addiction and the addictive aspects of our modern world
(00:17:19) – Dr. Carl Erik Fisher on addiction through history and across cultures, and how society divides addicted people
(00:36:53) – Zen Henry Shukman on enlightenment as defined by Zen, his childhood, and his own story of kenshō
(00:58:45) – The acclaimed non-duality teacher Rupert Spira discusses the necessity of moving past the myth of separation

Full episodes:

-Dr. Anna Lembke: https://link.chtbl.com/9IfZ8XzU
-Dr. Carl Erik Fisher: https://link.chtbl.com/a53WmGq9
-Henry Shukman: https://link.chtbl.com/F7Kdo_05
-Rupert Spira: https://link.chtbl.com/F7Kdo_05

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Danica Patrick – Where Achievement And Spirituality Meet

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Talking points: masculinity, femininity, achievement, dating, psychedelics, competition, culture, truth, what men and women want (and what they get wrong)

Wow. Danica and I covered a LOT of territory in this conversation. Like, top 3 widest-ranging conversations I’ve had on the podcast. Listen in for everything from masculine/feminine dynamics, to the nature of truth, to sharing psychedelic stories, to what men get wrong about women (and vice versa).

This is a brilliant episode to dig into if you’re looking less for answers and more for wonder. Much of what we discussed is better served by not forcing solutions, but simply wondering about viewpoints. Plus, you get a little of everything in this one!

 

[00:03:54] – Danica’s defining moment

[00:11:41] – Women and the masculine

[00:17:49] – How did masculine energy show up in Danica’s career?

[00:23:47] – How does it feel to be told, as a woman, “You’re more masculine than I am”?

[00:37:17] – The intersection of achievement and spirituality

[00:44:52] – Psychedelic experiences

[00:54:24] – How has your imagination and curiosity shaped your life?

[01:08:28] – How do you view the masculine and feminine culturally?

[01:30:18] – What do women get wrong about men, and vice versa?

 

About Danica Patrick

At just 10 years old, Danica’s racing career began after her parents bought her a go-kart. After winning numerous regional and national go-kart titles, Danica left the Midwest at 16 years old to compete in the cutthroat world of European road racing.

As a racecar driver, Danica Patrick broke barriers and set records with her on-track performance. With her racing career behind her, Danica looks to her next chapter as she focuses on her passions: good food, great wine, fitness and helping others achieve their goals.

Moving into her next chapter, retired from racing, Danica’s focus has shifted to her role as an entrepreneur and business owner. Danica has launched the clothing line – Warrior by Danica Patrick, authored a book Pretty Intense, and is the sole proprietor of Somnium, a vineyard in Napa Valley, California. In addition to these passion projects, Danica also continues to do inspirational speaking engagements and she plans to build upon these initiatives in the coming years.

Connect with Danica

-Website: https://www.danicapatrick.com/

-Podcast: https://www.danicapatrick.com/podcasts

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danicapatrick/

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/danicapatrick

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Drew Manning – Leaving The Mormon Church, Porn, And Getting Fit

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Talking points: Mormon religion, porn, infidelity, fitness

You can tell right away Mr. Drew Manning is a kind and open man. We sat down recently to discuss talk about his journey of gaining and losing 75 pounds on purpose to better understand his clients, but it became so much more, including his departure from the religion he grew up with and how that felt, how he overcame shame, what it’s like to enter the dating scene as a single dad, and much more.

Health and fitness expert Drew Manning is the New York Times best-selling author of Fit2Fat2Fit: The Unexpected Lessons from Gaining and Losing 75 lbs on Purpose and has for years been a leading voice in the burgeoning Keto Diet movement.

Drew is also the creator of the A&E Show Fit to Fat to Fit and the host of The Fit2Fat2Fit Experience podcast. With over a million social media followers, Drew continues to transform people’s lives all around the world.

Known for his straightforward and empathetic fitness and health coaching, Drew has been featured on The Dr. Oz Show, CNN, Good Morning America, The Tonight Show, The View, and MSNBC, among other media outlets.

He lives in Salt Lake City, Utah, with his daughters, who remind him every day not to take things too seriously.

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Experts On: Men And Masculinity – Past, Present, And Future

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All you newcomers to the podcast, this one is for you! Every now and then, we like to take segments from previous episodes that were particularly insightful, informative, or moving, and showcase them under theme. That way, you get a solid look at what we offer. In this episode:

  • James Hollis on how the landscape of male culture has changed in his lifetime
  • Owen Marcus on emotional intelligence
  • Ben Goresky on what modern men seem to be facing
  • John Wineland on the “integrated masculine” and embodiment
  • Francis Weller on how men can nourish future generations

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Dr. Nicholas Brüss – A Deep Dive Into Psychedelics, Part 2

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Talking points: psychedelics, psychedelic-assisted therapy, men and therapy, the effects during and after taking psychedelics

I’ve been looking forward to releasing the second part of our convo as a way of kicking off what 2023 could be for mental health. Nick is very well-informed, and if you’ve ever been curious about something like psilocybin, or just wanted some clarification on how psychedelics can affect a person and assist with powerful healing, this one is for you.

Part 1 was about the fears and worries people can have around psychedelic experiences, and an overview of how they work and what their potential is.

You can check out part 1 here: https://link.chtbl.com/tnw-t7gl

Dr. Nicholas Bruss is a licensed psychotherapist in Los Angeles, CA, specializing in integrative, ketamine-assisted psychotherapy (KAP), and Internal Family Systems (IFS). He is certified in Mindfulness Facilitation at UCLA’s Mindful Awareness Research Center (MARC), Los Angeles, CA, and as a Compassion Cultivation Teacher at Stanford University’s Center for Compassion, Altruism, Research and Education (CCARE), Stanford, CA. Dr. Brüss is a therapist at the Los Angeles site for the MAPS-sponsored Phase III clinical trial of MDMA-assisted psychotherapy for PTSD.

Connect with Nick

-Website: https://apracticeoffreedom.com/

-MAPS: https://maps.org/

–https://psychedelic.support/

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Dr. Nicole LePera – Defining The Self And The Work To Become More Authentic

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It’s been a long time since I’ve had Dr. LePera on the show. Too long, in my opinion. Earlier this month, we got into a discussion that was equal parts practical and esoteric: what is the self? This was inspired by her newly released book, How To Meet Yourself.

This was such an enjoyable conversation, and as always, I’m honored to have the chance to know and speak to the Holistic Psychologist herself! Listen in.

Dr. Nicole LePera was trained in clinical psychology at Cornell University and the New School for Social Research. She also studied at the Philadelphia School of Psychoanalysis. As a clinical psychologist in private practice, Dr. Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients—and for herself—she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical, and spiritual health that equips people with the tools necessary to heal themselves. Nothing short of a paradigm shift, Dr. Nicole LePera’s teachings empower the individual to break free from trauma cycles and create who they want to become.

Connect with Dr. Nicole:

-Website: https://yourholisticpsychologist.com/

-Instagram: @the.holistic.psychologist

-Youtube: https://bit.ly/3fmD5eH

-Book: How To Meet Yourself: https://amzn.to/3PRI4WO

 

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Three Feminine Archetypes Men Are Drawn To

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Let me preface this by defining what I mean by “archetype”: a framework that works well for looking at certain patterns and traits. As far as I can tell, these three archetypes work together, and they’re also three major archetypes men tend to fall for. Often unconsciously.

What also happens is men can get stuck or fixated on one of them in a relationship, and this can lead to complications.

This episode (sort of!) inspired by Jill Scott’s I’m Not Afraid: https://youtu.be/yjDmpjuRUEc

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Wim Hof – Breathe, Motherf***er

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There are moments in the podcast life that aren’t just a highlight, they straight-up blow your mind. Wim Hof has been an inspiration for me and many friends and men I’ve worked with for years now. I finally got him on the show to talk about what led to him discovering cold immersion therapy and breathwork, what happens to the body and the nervous system during breathwork or when you’re feeling fear, its effects on inflammation, and the ultimate purpose of men. Do. Not. Miss. This.

Also, in honor of this episode, I partnered up with TheColdPlunge.com, whose work I love. I use mine daily and the simplicity is an absolute game changer. Use the promo code MANTALKS to save a good chunk of money and join me in the plunge!

Connect with Wim

-Website: https://www.wimhofmethod.com/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iceman_hof/

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/iceman_hof

-YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxHTM1FYxeC4F7xDsBVltGg

-BBC Series: Freeze the Fear: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0bwtn6q

 

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Danielle LaPorte – Leading With Love

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Forgiveness doesn’t often come easy, but it’s a big part of being human. And self-forgiveness? This is something many, many men come to me with questions about. Danielle is an old friend and I’m deeply grateful to have sat down with her on this topic. We also cover what it looks like to actually deal with our fears—to compassionately work with them and other patterns that may hold us back. 

Danielle LaPorte is a member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100 a group who, in Oprah Winfrey’s words, “is uniquely connecting the world together with a spiritual energy that matters.” 

The former director of a future studies think tank in Washington, DC, where she managed a team creating global scenarios. She now speaks about the intelligence of the heart. 

Her most recent book, How To Be Loving…when your heart is breaking open and the world is waking up, is also an Audiobook + ebook, with a companion deck and journal. Danielle is also the author of The Fire Starter Sessions, The Desire Map, White Hot Truth, and producer of dozens of meditation kits and online programs for spiritual support.

Danielle is the creator of the Heart Centered Membership and the Heart Centered Leadership Program with 400+ leaders in 30 countries hosting conversation circles, retreats, and workshops in all kinds of communities and businesses.

Her podcast, With Love, Danielle, often ranks in iTunes’ top 10 for wellness. Most of her offerings—from the Heart Centered Membership to her online classes—are on a pay what you choose basis. Named one of the Top 100 Websites for Women by Forbes, millions of people a month visit DanielleLaPorte.com.

Marianne Williamson refers to Danielle “as a bright light.” V (formerly known as Eve Ensler) calls her “a force field of energy, wonder, humour, and love.” 

Her charities of choice are Ally Global Foundation, helping survivors of human trafficking to rebuild their lives (@allyglobal), Trees Sisters’ reforestation projects (@treesisters_official), and VDay, a movement to end violence against women and girls (vdayorg). 

She lives in Vancouver, BC.

Connect with Danielle

-Website: https://daniellelaporte.com/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellelaporte/

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/daniellelaporte

-New book; How To Be Loving: https://amzn.to/3Mgc9gU

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Rabbi Manis Friedman – The Nature Of Intimacy

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Last week, Zen. This week, a unique perspective on intimacy, relationships, and marriage from Rabbi Manis Friedman. I’ve been wanting to hear differing ideas from differing traditions on what it means to really cultivate an intimate relationship, and Rabbi Friedman had some interesting things to say! We cover loving someone versus loving things about them, what it really means to marry someone—from a more mystical frame of mind, how a “performance” mindset around sex destroys intimacy, and a lot more.

Rabbi Manis Friedman is a world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer, and philosopher. He combines ancient Torah wisdom with modern wit to captivate audiences around the world. He hosts his own critically acclaimed cable television series, Torah Forum with Manis Friedman, syndicated throughout North America and is known as “Youtube’s Most Popular Rabbi”.

Rabbi Friedman’s first book, Doesn’t Anyone Blush Anymore? was widely praised by the media. He has appeared on CNN, A&E Reviews, PBS, and BBC Worldwide, and has been the subject of articles in the New York Times, Rolling Stone, Seventeen, Guideposts, Insight, Publisher’s Weekly, and others. The book is currently in its fourth printing.

His latest book, The Joy of Intimacy is empowering thousands of couples to replace their loneliness and unfulfilled expectations with a deeply soulful and satisfying relationship. In his private practice, Rabbi Friedman has helped thousands of couples and individuals achieve fulfilling, balanced relationships, through in-person meetings or remote video consultations.

Rabbi Friedman is also a noted Biblical scholar, recognized for his grasp of Jewish mysticism. In 1971, he founded Bais Chana Institute of Jewish Studies in Minnesota, the world’s first yeshiva exclusively for women, where he continues to serve as dean. From 1984 to 1990, he served as a simultaneous translator for the Lubavitcher Rebbe’s televised talks.

Born in Prague, Czechoslovakia in 1946, Rabbi Friedman immigrated with his family to the United States in 1950. He received his rabbinic ordination from the Rabbinical College of Canada in 1969 and is a professionally ranked member of the National Speakers Association. His speaking tours take him to every part of this country as well as Israel, England, The Netherlands, South Africa, Australia, Brazil, Venezuela, Peru, Canada, and Hong Kong.

Rabbi Friedman is now using the latest technology to spread morality to a wider audience throughout the world through his books, videos and personal meetings via the launch of itsgoodtoknow.org. He has made it his mission to reach every one of the billion people on Youtube in order to help them improve their relationships and deepen their connection with G-d.

Connect with Rabbi Friedman

-Website: https://itsgoodtoknow.org/

-YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnkB28NTo_OxXTYjCUv7m5Q

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rabbimanisfriedman/

-Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RabbiManisFriedmanIsrael

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