The Alliance

The Alliance 

The Online Men's Group for Self-Aware, High-Performing, and Impactful Men

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Is The Alliance for You? 

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What do you want from your life...

Modern men want to leave an impact beyond the lukewarm, "Here lies a good man."  

You know what they mean when they say he was a 'good man' don't you?  

They mean a man who lost his ability to dream and live a big, bold vision. They mean a man who took commands like, "Get your head out of the clouds," "Toughen up," and "Real men don't feel emotions," literally.  

But in our initiation free society, with failing male role models, the boy hears only noise. He confuses healthy, strong masculinity with machismo.  

So he changes his behavior. He starts doing what others tell him he should do rather than what he knows, deep down, that he must do.  

He backs off his principles. He lets go of his dreams. Unbeknownst to him, he develops a code that does not serve him well. Subconsciously, he decides that he'll:  

Be tough.  

Never ask for help.  

Make money.  

Stop feeling any emotion (unless it's anger).  

But in this adopting this ethos he makes a tradeoff. One he won't understand the costs of until many years later. After he's far down the well-worn path of most modern men.  

After he's blunted his true talents. After he's made so many 'practical' choices. After he's lost much of his life energy. After his wild and willful masculinity has eroded.  

After he's forgotten who he REALLY is.  

In the name of 'success' our men have given up on the true success of fulfillment and self-awareness.  

We have a society of men with the wrong definition of success.  

Our ideas and ideals devastate us because of how wrong they are. Let me ask you this: do you believe some version of any of these statements?  

"Real men figure it out."  

"Real men aren't a burden on anyone."  

"Real men are successful."  

"Real men sacrifice it all for their family."  

"Real men bring home the bacon."  

You know what? Men are often all these things, but tragically it's often at the expense of their own state of mind.  

It's at the expense of health, relationships, and most of all at the expense of their own fulfillment.  

Why? Because many men are stuck in their heads. Many of us can't break free from our own limitations and Bullshit. We're calculating a solution rather than living our truth.  

We're looking for purpose in an outcome rather than deep down in our being.  

And we've forgotten this sacred truth:  

"The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift."  

Men have lost the ability to combine our heads and our hearts. We kill what our instincts know to be true.  

We kill it one small choice at a time. We kill it with addictions both petty and grand. We kill it by living someone else's life.  

Meanwhile, our head continues to work. It runs simulations. It calculates. It churns probabilities. Until many of us can't even sleep at night.  

But hey...  

At least you're a 'good man,' right?  

But here's the crazy thing...  

It doesn't have to be this way. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that when you put awakened (and awakening) men together you get magical results. When you let men speak their truth and challenge each other without judgement but with firm conviction, you get altering results.  

Does a group of high-performing men stop caring about performance? Hell no. Men will always in large part define ourselves by what we get done. Do we stop providing? Hell no. If anything we start taking even more pride in that role.  

But in this unique space we also see so much more. We see deep strength and a new level of brotherhood that most men never achieve in their adult lives.  

This is the space we've created with The Alliance.

The Alliance Is For You If 

  • You're ready to be a better husband, father, business owner.
  • You want to live a life full of meaning and fullfillment.
  • Are you missing meaningfull connection with other men in your life?
  • Are you looking for a group of men to create a brotherhood with?
  • Are you looking to get unstuck in your life, relationships or career?
  • You're ready for better results in all areas of your life.


Are you ready to?

  • Up your mental game.
  • Have a fierce and focused mindset.
  • Join a group other powerful men who will hold you accountable.  
  • Become the type of leader, husband, father you can be.
  • Break free of your limiting patterns and negative beliefs. 
  • Smash through your analysis paralysis.  
  • Have better sex and be more confident.
  • Silence your inner critic that's been telling you to play it safe.  
  • Develop true dicipline.
  • Get meaningful results instead of a To-Do List  
  • Lead an amazing love life.

Follow Our Proven Process 

The Alliance is a 4 month online program 

Weekly Video Calls

Our monthly challenges are designed to get you out of your head and into your life, so you start getting the results you want. For two weeks each month you'll be working on something new. 

Monthly Challenges

Our monthly challenges are designed to get you out of your head and into your life, so you start getting the results you want. For two weeks each month you'll be working on something new. 

Regular Accountability

We follow time-tested peer-to-peer accountability protocol to ensure you always get the support and challenge you need to acheive your goals.

Private Facebook Group

We create a space for you to stay connected on a daily and weekly basis with your brothers in the group and build connection for with the other memebers of your group.


What Could You Accomplish After Spending a Year Focusing On These Key Areas?


We spend the first month of the year working on purpose, because men need a clear, meaningful purpose in order to plan, prepare, and execute at their best.


In the second month we audit, then create an action plan, and finally reshape our mindset -- including emotional, physical, and spiritual development.


In the third month we focus on relationships using our proven process that starts with self-assessment and moves into planning and action


In the final month we apply our process to our working life. Members see huge benefit in this of the groundwork they laid early in the year.

What Our Members Say

"I’ve been doing self work for 21 years. Been through a lot of tuff shit. And this group has exceed my expectations. It’s a movement whose time is now. A celebration of the healthy man. If you want to level up, step up and challenge yourself to grow into who you can truly be: present, grounded, aware and powerful. Then get to the edge of yourself and jump in. Thanks Connor Beaton!"

- Graham

"As a proud member of The Alliance I cannot recommend this enough if you are in the right place for working on yourself. Be prepared to find out more about yourself than you could think of. Great support network, make new male friends and create your own Alliance of men to support and help you! Connor Beaton and Traver H. Boehm are awesome coaches that will help guide you through this. It has changed my life for the better in so many ways."

- Philip 

"Men, I’m proud to say I’m a member of The Alliance with Connor. I knew Connor was an incredible speaker and facilitator, having watched him live. But this man can hold a group of diverse men together in an honorable space that allows each other discover their powerful masculinity. Just the way we’ve learned to talk about our lives, our work, and intimate relationships have transformed in different ways for each man. While building bonds with new men. The growth has been incredible. I would encourage any man to jump in."

- Charles

"I found an incredible like-minded community, made more money, got in great shape, AND launched my passion business in woodworking as a result of the authentic friendships and connections I built."

-Luke Marek, Oak and Ore Woodworking 

Why Me?

My name is Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks, and coach to some of the highest performing men in the world.  

Ever since launching ManTalks 4 years ago, I've worked with men across North America. I've challenged them to find purpose and design their life around it.  

I've supported men going through divorces, starting new relationships, and navigating dating traps.  

I've built a large community of Men Who Give a Fuck™ all across North America. 

I've spoken on countless stages. I've led and facilitated groups of men to empower themselves and change.  

I've helped men uncover blind spots, like when they're stuck in their head. Like how their intimate relationship is failing. Like how they're showing up in business.  

And I've found that every man in every stage of life is (in a sense) the same. Sure, our external circumstances look different. But at the core, we're the same. We have the same problems. We need the same support.  

And we're dying to BE REAL.  

I’ve helped men starting out. I've helped men in transition. I've helped men who've been 'crushing it' for years and who want to expand beyond their edge.  

In other words: I've done a lot of work with men across North America.  

But I've never been as excited about anything as I am about The Alliance.  


Because men have been asking me for it. Because it's open to men across the world. Because well, I'm an excitable guy and this is my life's work. The Alliance is the highest and best use of my energy.  

I'm not going to lie, this is as much for me as it is for you. I get to do what I love the most, what I'm best at, while seeing YOU connect with the best men in the world and grow beyond what you thought was possible.  

So what do you say? Are you ready for true success?  

Click on any one of the APPLY buttons found on this page to get started.  

Thank you and I look forward to meeting you live, inside The Alliance.