This is something I’m seeing a lot on social media, but also in everyday dialogue and even some clients: labeling someone with a definitive psychological term to shut down dialogue or shame someone else, usually without really knowing what’s being talked about.

This only speeds up our polarization and harms our ability to connect. How about we…stop doing that?

Note: the article in the NYT I mentioned was written by Dr. Tara Isabella Burton, not Bayo Akomolafe. I’ll link it below, along with his interview on the Emerald Podcast.

The Problem With Letting Therapy-Speak Invade Everything:

The Emerald: The Revolution Will Not Be Pscyhologized, Part 2:

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