Connor Beaton

Talking points: history, psychology, mindset, culture

Like George Santayana said, those who do not learn from the past are condemned to repeat it. There’s so much we can learn about ourselves, where we come from, and what needs our attention when we study the past. Grateful for the host of Cost of Glory, Alex Petkas, coming back on the show to lay down some real history, difficult truths, and deep insights on ol’ Gaius himself.

(00:00:00) – What the modern man can learn from Julius Caesar

(00:17:52) – The importance of philosophy and poetry to ancient men

(00:23:06) – Why Caesar’s storytelling ability was so important, and how modern men can benefit from being better storytellers

(00:35:51) – The usefulness of old stories and ideas, and the psychological strategies that Caesar used

(00:45:48) – How Caesar handled women

(00:52:12) – Misconceptions of Caesar’s demise and attitude

Alex Petkas is writer, entrepreneur, and founder of The Cost of Glory,  a bridge for the virtues of ancient heroes and the modern world’s demands. With a PhD in Classics from Princeton University, Alex has transcended traditional academic boundaries to bring the power of ancient wisdom into contemporary leadership. Recognizing that figures like Plato, Aristotle, Plutarch, and Cato were not just intellectual giants but also formidable leaders and entrepreneurs, he blends their timeless insights with modern leadership needs, offering actionable strategies that resonate with today’s leaders. Alex challenges the modern disregard for classical education, championing its vital role in moral and intellectual development. His mission is to reignite the heroic spark within men, empowering them to tackle contemporary challenges with unmatched courage and clarity.

Connect with Alex

-Website: https://www.costofglory.com/

-The Authoritative Speakers Guide: https://costofglory.kit.com/gift

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexpetkas/

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Talking points: relationships, mindset

I see so many men struggle with this, without ever knowing why. Part of it’s the realities of modern dating, but there’s a few things you can do to rise above. Listen in.

(00:00:00) – Here’s the situation

(00:04:32) – Stop overfunding the account in an effort to get something

(00:06:51) – Be her best option, but don’t stuff it in her face

(00:10:55) – Re-prioritize your needs and expectations, and do it like this

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Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. 

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Talking points: money, success, mindset, finances

Grateful to have the thoughtful and straightforward advice of Sahil Bloom when it comes to wealth—minus the get-rich-quick schemes and “hacks” you see too often on social media. We covered a ton, from financial skill development and a healthy relationship with money, to how you balance that with what really matters.

(00:00:24) – Understanding the Misconceptions of Success

(00:12:34) – The Lottery Mindset and Its Pitfalls

(00:21:32) – Developing Skills for Financial Success

(00:26:04) – The Value of Deep Thinking, Writing, And Conversation

(00:30:10) – Understanding Antigoals And “Time Wealth”

(00:42:22) – Balacing Risk And Wealth

Sahil Bloom is an inspirational writer and content creator, captivating millions of people every week through his insights and bi-weekly newsletter, ‘The Curiosity Chronicle’. Sahil is a successful entrepreneur, owner of SRB Holdings, and the managing partner of SRB Ventures, an early-stage investment fund. Sahil graduated from Stanford University with an MA in public policy and a BA in economics and sociology. He was a four-year member on the Stanford Baseball Team.

Connect with Sahil

-Website: https://www.sahilbloom.com/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sahilbloom/

-Book: The 5 Types Of Wealth: https://www.the5typesofwealth.com/

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Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. 

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Talking points: conflict, relationships

You’re going to get into arguments. There will be differences of opinion. But what if those were gateways to something more? Today, the latest in the Man’s Guide series.

(00:00:00) – Choose someone you’re willing to conflict with, and be someone she’s willing to conflict with, too.

(00:04:11) – Your nervous system sets the tone.

(00:07:41) – You need rules of engagement.

(00:10:45) – Stop trying to “fix” her emotions.

(00:15:25) – Don’t fall for The Trap. Connect instead.

(00:18:47) – Lead the repair.

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Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. 

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Talking points: masculinity, isolation, culture, suicide

Look, Netflix’s Adolescence was solid. But like anything Hollywood, it’s not the whole picture. The big picture is complex, systemic, and deeply uncomfortable—and we seem to have built a culture that simply doesn’t want to talk about it meaningfully and practically. I’m grateful for men like George (aka TheTinMen) who work tirelessly to point out how men’s issues are important, complicated, and deserving of attention. Listen in.

(00:00:00) – Intro, and wtf is going on in the UK.

(00:12:28) – How do you actually speak to men’s issues, and where the conversation unfortunately goes

(00:21:44) – The collapse of male spaces, and why are struggling men framed as inconvenience?

(00:38:09) – George’s take on increasing levels of loneliness and isolation in men, and possible solutions

(00:44:51) – What people get wrong about male suicide

(00:50:43) – Is it inherently bad/toxic that a man wants to provide for people?

(00:58:51) – Data on how domestic violence and sexual abuse is underreported in men

(00:59:04) – How do you learn what “enough” is, and the psychology of bitcoin

George (@TheTinMen) is a content creator, research, pro-men’s advocate and social media influencer. He explores the forgotten gaps of the gender debate, working for compassionate, original, and progressive political advocacy for men and boys.

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Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. 

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Talking points: mindset, addiction, porn

It’s a serious challenge. You’re doing well, you think you’ve broken free—and suddenly you’re back. This week, I dig into practical ways you can reinforce and reenergize your commitment. For more helpful info, check out my free guide here: https://training.mantalks.com/Quit

(00:00:00) – Intro, and the first step

(00:04:13) – Get to the bottom of what’s driving the urge

(00:08:56) – Purpose beats porn

(00:11:15) – Redirect AND replace

(00:14:05) – Understand porn as a “pseudo-attachment”

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Tired of feeling like you’re never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth

Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. 

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Talking points: culture, economics, mindset, debt, Ed Hardy

To maybe understate things, it’s a jungle out there right now, financially speaking. I’ve really enjoyed Morgan’s books and perspective, so in early April, I asked him to come on. He shared TONS of insight on tariffs, what’s next, how the average person can change their financial straights for the better, even Fartcoin. Listen in.

(00:00:00) – What in the world is going on

(00:09:35) – If it’s about bringing manufacturing back, then will jobs go to workers—or to automation?

(00:16:37) – On tariff misconceptions and myths, and the difference between personal debt and government debt

(00:25:27) – How does the average person weather the storm?

(00:29:49) – How building wealth is behavioral, not intellectual, and the anti-capitalist mindset

(00:38:19) – What to do when you’re struggling to get your finances under control

(00:44:00) – Discovering why you actually want more money, and raising kids with good financial sense

(00:59:04) – How do you learn what “enough” is, and the psychology of bitcoin

Morgan Housel is a partner at The Collaborative Fund. He is a two-time winner of the Best in Business Award from the Society of American Business Editors and Writers, winner of the New York Times Sidney Award, and a two-time finalist for the Gerald Loeb Award for Distinguished Business and Financial Journalism. He lives in Seattle with his wife and two kids.

Connect with Morgan

-Coming in October: The Art of Spending Money: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/741239/the-art-of-spending-money-by-morgan-housel/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/morganhousel/

-Podcast: https://lnk.to/vDltf2

Talking points: relationships, leadership

A while back, I launched a video on how men can better lead themselves and their relationships. It got a ton of dialogue, let’s just say. Here’s what I mean by lead, and three definitive steps to getting it right.

(00:00:00) – Defining what “lead” actually means

(00:04:08) – The first thing to do

(00:07:14) – Stop taking her emotions personally

(00:12:47) – Lead in connection, lead in repair

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Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. 

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Talking points: masculinity, regret, anger, culture

It’s been too long since I sat down with The Captain himself. I am continuously grateful for Kyle’s honesty about his own life, his process, and his opinion on things. Which means this conversation is as refreshing as it is frank. Strongly recommend sharing this one, team.

(00:00:00) – Why is regret such a thing, are men conditioned to beat themselves up, and should it impact our decisions?

(00:10:47) – How a recent writing project nearly broke Kyle, and what he learned

(00:18:28) – On Netflix’s “Adolescence”, social media, and male role models

(00:26:24) – How Kyle manages anger

(00:31:38) – On maintaining discipline and motivation for creative or side projects, and what Kyle would’ve done differently

(00:41:41) – Why therapy didn’t work for Kyle

(00:49:38) – Kyle’s new book

As is tradition, I’m share Kyle’s unedited bio here because it’s…well, it’s just fantastic.

“As a kid, I wanted to be a cowboy. Then, my mom bought me a skateboard and I got on with my life. In college, I decided copywriting was the career move for me and, for the last decade, I’ve held a variety of creative positions both in-house and within agency settings. I’ve also published five books, spoken at events around the country, and educated the masses about shark dating as the host of “Shark Sex 101” for Discovery Channel’s ever-popular Shark Week series.

My work has had its share of recognition — but nothing will ever mean as much to me as the “2016 AAF People’s Choice Show Winner” award that I received for tattooing a former employer’s face on my ass as part of a charity auction.

My only regret in life is being just a grammar gunslinger and not an actual cowboy. I don’t even own a horse.”

Connect with Kyle

-New book: Speech Therapy: https://m.cmpgn.page/QDc2tx

-Website: https://www.kylecreek.com/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sgrstk/

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Join myself, Ryan Michler, Larry Hagner, and Matt Beaudreau on a mission to improve yourself as a man, husband, business owner, and community leader at the Men’s Forge. May 1-4, St. Louis, MO: https://orderofman.clickfunnels.com/uprising-landing-page1715263442491

Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

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Talking points: attachment, relationships, mindset

Anxious attachment can make any relationship feel fraught with tension and threat. It doesn’t have to be that way, and there are clear steps you can take that really do get results. Start with these ones.

(00:00:00) – Anxious attachment refresher

(00:04:04) – Priority number one: develop safety internally—and how

(00:09:37) – Number two: recognize false flags

(00:14:10) – Number three: practice calm connection

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Tired of feeling like you’re never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth

Join myself, Ryan Michler, Larry Hagner, and Matt Beaudreau on a mission to improve yourself as a man, husband, business owner, and community leader at the Men’s Forge. May 1-4, St. Louis, MO: https://orderofman.clickfunnels.com/uprising-landing-page1715263442491

Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. 

Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don’t forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify

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Talking points: relationships, masculinity, mindset, nice guy syndrome

A bunch of you have reached out requesting an interview with Nick, aka The People Displeaser, and I’m happy to say we finally got the chance to talk. Nick’s practical, no-nonsense frame is a breath of fresh air. If you’re looking for ways to combat your own people-pleasing tendencies—and some really good reasons why you should—this is the episode for you.

(00:00:00) – Is people-pleasing really that bad, and what creates one

(00:08:39) – How “needs” turned into a form of manipulation, and the nuance of privilege

(00:14:15) – Does people-pleasing show up differently in men and women, and what the true cost is

(00:24:59) – Where does a man start dealing with people-pleasing

(00:38:31) – The importance of rejection, and do women play a role?

(00:48:55) – Nick’s hard truths for introverts

(00:54:22) – What you’re going to face when start putting yourself first

Nick Pollard, aka The People Displeaser, is a world-renowned coach and speaker who specializes in addiction, codependent behavior, and people-pleasing. Overcoming his own struggles—a deeply difficult childhood, his own addictive tendencies, and more—he now works tirelessly to support others wanting to break free. With tens of millions views on his social media channels, Nick has become a thought leader in personal growth and change, and now ranks in the top 10% of coaches worldwide.

Connect with Nick

-Website: https://thepeopledispleaser.com/

-YouTube: www.youtube.com/@peopledispleaser

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepeopledispleaser/

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Tired of feeling like you’re never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth

Join myself, Ryan Michler, Larry Hagner, and Matt Beaudreau on a mission to improve yourself as a man, husband, business owner, and community leader at the Men’s Forge. May 1-4, St. Louis, MO: https://orderofman.clickfunnels.com/uprising-landing-page1715263442491

Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. 

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Talking points: boundaries, relationships, mindset

The counter-intuitive truth is this: if you’re stuck in people-pleasing, you’re generally not people-helping. I see a lot of men go through this, and many are unaware of what it really is and where it comes from. This week, straightforward insight and direct steps to breaking free.

(00:00:00) – What the heck is people-pleasing?

(00:03:02) – Two specific origins of people pleasing, and uncovering where it started in your own life

(00:06:18) – The effect of trauma on one’s needs and self-worth

(00:07:34) – The two major challenges of people-pleasing, and how to start breaking out of this

(00:10:39) – Reflecting on tendencies, practicing your No, and prioritizing what you need 

(00:14:45) – On boundaries

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Tired of feeling like you’re never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth

Join myself, Ryan Michler, Larry Hagner, and Matt Beaudreau on a mission to improve yourself as a man, husband, business owner, and community leader at the Men’s Forge. May 1-4, St. Louis, MO: https://orderofman.clickfunnels.com/uprising-landing-page1715263442491

Pick up my book, Men’s Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. 

Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don’t forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify

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