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You’ve probably heard this one, but is it really a good way of maintaining your marriage? Don’t get me wrong, the wellbeing and happiness of your partner should of course be a priority—but there’s more to relationships than that.

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Preaching the obvious here, but romantic relationships are complex, and WHY something becomes a conflict can be incredibly hard to map—unless you’re Figs O’Sullivan. This was such an enjoyable interview. Figs brings a sense of playfulness and humor to the tough stuff, and helps open up new ways of looking at conflict in relationships, why it happens, why reoccurring arguments happen, how to move through those arguments differently. Have a listen to this alongside your partner!

Figs O’Sullivan was bred and emboldened in Dublin, Ireland and immigrated to the Marin County and San Francisco area in 1994. He was drawn to psychotherapy and self-exploration to better open to, move through, and heal his own emotional pain and suffering, and the last of his family to do so. Figs’ father is an experiential therapist in Ireland, his mother a social worker/probation officer, and his sister is also a psychotherapist in the Bay Area.

He received a BA and MA in Economics from Trinity College in Dublin, Ireland before moving to the States and working as a stockbroker, employee stock options specialist, and executive. He quit the corporate world and attended Esalen in Big Sur, immersing himself in the study of existential psychotherapies, spirituality, body-oriented/somatic modalities, and the therapeutic expressive arts such as drama and dance as ways to uncage life, access inner wisdom, and build capacities for growth and transformation. Figs went on to receive an MA in Counseling Psychology from Meridian University in Petaluma.

He is also extensively studied  Gestalt Awareness Practice, Emotionally Focused Therapy (a highly effective form of marriage counseling), Imago, Collaborative Couples Therapy, Experiential Psychotherapy for Couples, Gottman’s work, and more.

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I get asked this a lot: what are my relationship green flags? What would I consider the biggest go-aheads in a partner? And to be honest, these come after a loooong time of not knowing what to look for or what I really wanted!

So consider this list some hard-earned, but simple and tactical things to look out for when pursuing a serious partnership.

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Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. More than 30,000 women in 146 countries have taken her flagship program Becoming the One. In her new book, Becoming the One, out April 12, 2022, Sheleana takes you on a transformational inner-work journey to heal life-long relationship patterns and reclaim power over your life. She lives with her husband, Ben, on xʷənen̕əč, the unceded land of the Hul’q’umi’num’ and WSÁNEĆ peoples, now known as Salt Spring Island, BC.

 

Connect with Sheleana

-Website: https://risingwoman.com/

-Personal Website: https://sheleanaaiyana.com/

-New Book! “Becoming The One”: https://courses.risingwoman.com/btobook

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risingwoman/

-Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RisingWomanOfficial

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There’s a lot of advice out there on how to feel more connected and more intimate in your relationship. A lot of it gets kind of, uh, overcomplicated, so let’s keep things nice and simple. Here are three straightforward, lasting ways to deepen intimacy

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Discovering a sense of purpose in life can feel frustrating and ambiguous at times, and with the mountain of books and guides out there, it’s also easy to dismiss the simple act of letting purpose find you, so to speak. Tim Corcoran specializes in helping people cut through the complexity and return to nature, so I sat down with him to dig into the nature and definition of purpose, the point of things like vision quests, and how nature speaks to us. 

Tim Corcoran is the founder of Purpose Mountain, where he serves as a certified Nature-Based Purpose Guide to support people who hear the call from wild nature to discover their purpose, those with a burning desire to live their vision and a willingness to work with resistance and fears through the Ecology of Self and Voice Dialogue. Tim also serves as co-Director of Twin Eagles Wilderness School, an organization he co-founded with his wife, Jeannine Tidwell, in Sandpoint, Idaho in 2005 dedicated to facilitating deep nature connection mentoring, cultural restoration, and inner tracking. 

Tim is a leader of men’s groups and holistic rites of passage for males, guiding and initiating men and boys into the new paradigm of the mature masculine. Since 1999, Tim has dedicated his life towards consciously furthering this vision of living in balance with the Earth, community, family, self, spirit, and soul. Healing the cultural rift between the mainstream and indigenous cultures, transformational consciousness work, the spiritual journey, ancestral work, deep nature connection, family and holistic health are all deep commitments in his life. Tim is a heart-centered father of two brilliant boys and husband to a magnificent wife and lives in pristine Sandpoint, Idaho.

Connect with Tim

-Website: https://www.purposemountain.com/

-Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PurposeMountain/

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At the start of a relationship, a lot of men dive headfirst into meeting every need the other person has. There’s nothing inherently wrong with that, but when you combine it with cultural messaging that seems to say men shouldn’t express (or even have) their own needs in a relationship, it prevents both parties from getting to really know each other. So here’s one way to break through that!

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Whether you’ve been cheated on, been the cheater, or been the couple trying to recover from it, this episode is for you. Stefanos has a gift for breaking things down with a balanced combo of compassion and accountability.

Or maybe you read the title and thought, “WTF is leaky sexual energy?” Well, my friend, listen in, because it’s a great way of framing personal sexual troubles from porn addiction to sexless marriages.

With over 15 years of experience in the personal development space, Stefanos is a trained educator, Behavioural Scientist, and relationships expert with an extensive background in Psychology, Philosophy, and Ecology. He is passionate about and committed to leading people to closer to their highest potential and to each other. Stefanos’ philosophy merges the best of Eastern and Western methodologies to promote spiritual balance and empower people in life and love.

From trauma release to navigating the murky waters of modern masculinity to helping women understand the men in their lives, he helps people escape negative patterns and cultivate a positive sense of self. Stefanos has worked with thousands of men and women from all walks of life; special forces soldiers, Olympic gold medalists, elite world champion fighters, and everyday people have relied on him to restructure and reframe their relationships with themselves, their past, their trauma, their potential, and their loved ones.

Connect with Stefanos

-Website: https://stefanossifandos.com/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stefanossifandos/

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-Twitter: https://twitter.com/stefsifandos

-Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stefanossifandosalchemist

 

 

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Your excuses are the tip of the iceberg. It’s what lies underneath that you need to deal with, and more often than not, that is fear. But…on the other side of your fear is exactly what you’re looking for.

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What we fantasize about sexually can say a lot about…well, a lot. Our insecurities, our identity, our culture, the list goes on. And what you might think is some strange niche only you hang out in might be more common than you think! This is the conversation the incredible Justin Lehmiller brought to the table, and I’m excited to share it with you. If you’re with a part of any variety, listen in together for some great insights. 

Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years.

He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 50 academic works to date, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality (now in its second edition) that is used in college classrooms around the world.

Dr. Lehmiller’s research focuses on topics including casual sex, sexual fantasy, sexual health, and friends with benefits. His studies have appeared in all of the leading journals on human sexuality, including the Journal of Sex Research, Archives of Sexual Behavior, and The Journal of Sexual Medicine.

Connect with Justin:

-Website: https://www.sexandpsychology.com/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/

-LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justinlehmiller

-Google Scholar: https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=r3pNkRoAAAAJ

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/justinlehmiller

-Book: Tell Me What You Want: https://amzn.to/3x1vmvU

-Podcast: The Sex and Psychology Podcast: https://www.sexandpsychology.com/podcasts/

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Years ago I put out a mini-episode on this topic, and on a whim decided to put it on the YouTube channel too. Clearly, complainers were a hot-button issue, because it became one of the top-performing videos on my channel, even though it was just audio.

I wanted to revisit the issue, because I don’t think ghosting them, ripping into them, or enabling them are solid ways of helping them (or ourselves). Here are my thoughts; I’d love to hear yours. DM me @mantalks on Instagram.

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Complexity and relationships go together like coffee and Sunday morning, and after working with hundreds of couples I’ve noticed some common threads that deserve a better look, like “vulnerability”. Do women actually want “vulnerable” men? I think the answer is more complex than anyone wants to admit.

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