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Let me preface this by defining what I mean by “archetype”: a framework that works well for looking at certain patterns and traits. As far as I can tell, these three archetypes work together, and they’re also three major archetypes men tend to fall for. Often unconsciously.

What also happens is men can get stuck or fixated on one of them in a relationship, and this can lead to complications.

This episode (sort of!) inspired by Jill Scott’s I’m Not Afraid: https://youtu.be/yjDmpjuRUEc

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Do clothes make the man? Well, yes and no. It’s a little more complicated than that. This is a deep-dive into some of the nuances of masculine aesthetics. Sit down with Tanner Guzy and I as we discuss how the way you dress affects your self-perception and how men have used clothing throughout history. We also get into some practical places to start dressing better!

Tanner Guzy is a men’s style coach, and the host and founder of Masculine-Style.com  He is also the author of The Appearance of Power, How Masculinity is Expressed Through Aesthetics, an analysis of the intersection of clothing, aesthetics, and masculinity, and how men throughout time and across the world have used their appearance to signal virtues like courage, strength, mastery, and honor.

Connect with Tanner

-Website: https://masculine-style.com/

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/tannerguzy

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tannerguzy/

-Book: The Appearance of Power: https://masculine-style.com/book-3/

 

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I was chatting with a friend and he asked me: what am I going to teach my son about money?

Big question. Because when I was kid, I wasn’t taught very much, and the lessons I DID learn didn’t work out too well. So after reflecting, here are four lessons I wish I’d learned a long time ago—one’s I’ll definitely be teaching my son.

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This week, I’m featuring some of the incredible work, insight, and knowledge of relationship experts I’ve had on. This is a great episode if you’re pressed for time, looking for a variety of answers, or just want a taste of what the ManTalks podcast has to offer. I hope you enjoy!

Over the last decade, Elizabeth Earnshaw, LMFT has become one of today’s most trusted relationship teachers. Elizabeth is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Fellow of The American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy. She is the Head Therapist at Actually, where she is working to make relational wellness mainstream & accessible. Elizabeth is also the host of Hash it Out on Good Risings where she offers advice to everyday relational conundrums. She is frequently asked to talk about relationships with media outlets like Mind Body Green and The Huffington Post and has been featured on numerous podcasts. 

Relationship expert and sought-after coach Jayson Gaddis is the founder of The Relationship School, an impact-based company dedicated to helping people work out their differences and have fulfilling long-term partnerships. Jayson is considered a world leader in love, conflict resolution, and interpersonal relationships. He’s the host of an extremely successful podcast with almost 3 million downloads (and over 250 episodes) and has interviewed the very best in the world including Dr. Dan Siegel, Dr. Gabor Mate, Dr. Stan Tatkin, Dr. John Demartini, The Gottmans, Pat Ogden, and Bessel VanDerKolk.

Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 50 academic works to date, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality (now in its second edition) that is used in college classrooms around the world.

Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. She lives with her husband, Ben, on xʷənen̕əč, the unceded land of the Hul’q’umi’num’ and WSÁNEĆ peoples, now known as Salt Spring Island, BC.

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Just the mention of him is enough to set Reddit threads on fire, and it’s understandable why. But I want to talk about what many of us are ignoring or distracted from: how a person like Tate gets attention—and why. Think whatever you want of him, but he’s a symptom of some larger issues. Here is my reaction to a clip of his, and some thoughts on what those larger issues might be.

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There are moments in the podcast life that aren’t just a highlight, they straight-up blow your mind. Wim Hof has been an inspiration for me and many friends and men I’ve worked with for years now. I finally got him on the show to talk about what led to him discovering cold immersion therapy and breathwork, what happens to the body and the nervous system during breathwork or when you’re feeling fear, its effects on inflammation, and the ultimate purpose of men. Do. Not. Miss. This.

Also, in honor of this episode, I partnered up with TheColdPlunge.com, whose work I love. I use mine daily and the simplicity is an absolute game changer. Use the promo code MANTALKS to save a good chunk of money and join me in the plunge!

Connect with Wim

-Website: https://www.wimhofmethod.com/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iceman_hof/

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/iceman_hof

-YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxHTM1FYxeC4F7xDsBVltGg

-BBC Series: Freeze the Fear: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0bwtn6q

 

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I got inspired by a question from a buddy of mine: what is one of the greatest lessons we as men need to learn in the context of relationships? It’s not an easy thing to do by any stretch, but I think it’s deeply important, deeply valuable, and it also saves you a ton of time and uncertainty. Obviously won’t spoil it here! So listen in.

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Forgiveness doesn’t often come easy, but it’s a big part of being human. And self-forgiveness? This is something many, many men come to me with questions about. Danielle is an old friend and I’m deeply grateful to have sat down with her on this topic. We also cover what it looks like to actually deal with our fears—to compassionately work with them and other patterns that may hold us back. 

Danielle LaPorte is a member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100 a group who, in Oprah Winfrey’s words, “is uniquely connecting the world together with a spiritual energy that matters.” 

The former director of a future studies think tank in Washington, DC, where she managed a team creating global scenarios. She now speaks about the intelligence of the heart. 

Her most recent book, How To Be Loving…when your heart is breaking open and the world is waking up, is also an Audiobook + ebook, with a companion deck and journal. Danielle is also the author of The Fire Starter Sessions, The Desire Map, White Hot Truth, and producer of dozens of meditation kits and online programs for spiritual support.

Danielle is the creator of the Heart Centered Membership and the Heart Centered Leadership Program with 400+ leaders in 30 countries hosting conversation circles, retreats, and workshops in all kinds of communities and businesses.

Her podcast, With Love, Danielle, often ranks in iTunes’ top 10 for wellness. Most of her offerings—from the Heart Centered Membership to her online classes—are on a pay what you choose basis. Named one of the Top 100 Websites for Women by Forbes, millions of people a month visit DanielleLaPorte.com.

Marianne Williamson refers to Danielle “as a bright light.” V (formerly known as Eve Ensler) calls her “a force field of energy, wonder, humour, and love.” 

Her charities of choice are Ally Global Foundation, helping survivors of human trafficking to rebuild their lives (@allyglobal), Trees Sisters’ reforestation projects (@treesisters_official), and VDay, a movement to end violence against women and girls (vdayorg). 

She lives in Vancouver, BC.

Connect with Danielle

-Website: https://daniellelaporte.com/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellelaporte/

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/daniellelaporte

-New book; How To Be Loving: https://amzn.to/3Mgc9gU

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Are you looking to find purpose, navigate transition, or fix your relationships, all

You work in coaching and stick around on social media for five minutes and you’ll see variations of these questions. And a lot of vitriol alongside.

It’s not that simple. It never is. And it doesn’t help anyone find fulfilling relationships.

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Seriously, this was a fantastic and mind-opening conversation. I get asked a lot about how to make—and keep—friends, and in a world that increasingly tries to isolate us, it’s more important than ever to cultivate the SKILL of making friends. Dr. Franco and I lean into how friendship impacts depression and purpose, her NYT bestselling book (which is @#$%ing good), how attachment style impacts how you perceive friends, and of course, why you should build your friend circle consciously and deliberately.

Dr. Marisa Franco is a New York Times bestselling author, professor, and psychologist. She communicates the science of connection in digestible ways and is passionate about sharing research with the people it could help the most.

Franco holds a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from the University of Maryland and works as a professor there currently. She writes for Psychology Today and has been a featured psychologist in The New York Times, NPR, and Good Morning America. Dr. Franco delivers talks about connection and belonging all over the country to private companies, universities, and non-profit organizations.

Connect with Dr. Marisa Franco

-Website: https://drmarisagfranco.com/

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarisagfranco/

-Book: Plantonic; How The Science Of Attachment Can Help Us Make —And Keep — Friends: https://drmarisagfranco.com/about/platonic-the-book/

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We all screw up sometimes. What’s important is how we navigate the aftermath, particularly in a relationship. This week, let’s dig into some of the more important aspects of making up with your partner after a fight, an argument, or a betrayal.

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Having my incredible wife Vienna on the show has been long overdue. And in the last two years a LOT has happened to both of us. So this week, we sat down in front of the mics to really dig deep on how it’s affected us and our relationship, and what we’ve learned about grief, loss, transition, motherhood and fatherhood, and a helluva lot more. 

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