Archives for September 28, 2026

The 3 Mountains of Leadership: Finding Purpose Beyond Yourself

To celebrate 11 years of the podcast, I brought back my very first guest, Philip McKernan, for an incredibly raw conversation about leadership, storytelling, and true human connection. We dive deep into why so many men are exhausted from running on “fuck you” energy, and how accepting the darkest chapters of our own past is the only real way to heal and make a lasting impact.

Whether you’re struggling to find purpose or want to know what genuine leadership looks like, Philip’s insights on moving beyond personal ambition to serve others will profoundly shift your perspective.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 – 11 Years Later: Welcoming Back My First Guest

03:29 – The Real Roadblocks to Making an Impact

08:39 – Peru Orphanage Story: Valuing Human Connection Over Gifts

15:48 – The Deep Roots of Irish Storytelling

20:23 – The Bus Driver: A Lesson in Simple Humanity

25:14 – Why You Must Own the Ugliest Chapters of Your Life

27:35 – The Pitch: Bringing Vulnerability to Business

34:38 – Running on “Diesel Fuel” vs. Pure Energy

46:38 – What Staying in a Job You Hate Teaches Your Kids

56:37 – The Three Mountains of Authentic Leadership

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