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Zero-bullshit breakdowns of tactics and ideas. You’ll find knowledge ranging from sex and intimacy, relationships, Zen Buddhism, to masculinity and personal editorials from Connor and his team.

5 Steps To Stop People Pleasing

April 3, 2025
Talking points: boundaries, relationships, mindset The counter-intuitive truth is this: if you’re stuck in people-pleasing, you’re generally not people-helping. I see a lot of men...

A Rise In Avoidant Attached Women?

March 20, 2025
Talking points: attachment, relationships, culture I recently brought in an attachment specialist for the Alliance because a lot of men are noticing an uptick in...
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Kyle Creek – Regret, Resilience, And Reinvention

Talking points: masculinity, regret, anger, culture It’s been too long since I sat down with The Captain himself. I am continuously grateful for Kyle’s honesty ...
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Breaking The Anxious Attachment Cycle: 3 Steps To Take

Talking points: attachment, relationships, mindset Anxious attachment can make any relationship feel fraught with tension and threat. It doesn’t have to be that way, and ...
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Nick Pollard – The Real Cost Of People-Pleasing

Talking points: relationships, masculinity, mindset, nice guy syndrome A bunch of you have reached out requesting an interview with Nick, aka The People Displeaser, and ...
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